Unfortunately, the truth is that the reflection doesn’t lie. If there is dysfunction in your life, then there is distortion somewhere or you are out of harmony with life. If you ignore it, it will persist in some shape or form, and perhaps manifest with greater intensity. Some people attempt to change the environment to avoid the reflection but here goes the saying, Wherever you go, there you will be.”
Clearing makes way and opens new possibilities to become aware of what’s going on. Awareness awakens, the mind becomes clearer, and the energies that are attracting dysfunction are beginning to be cleared. Changing the energy field makes the environment respond differently to you because the Universe is no longer responding to the old vibrations within your field.
Although the previous explanation holds true, there are other factors that may inhibit life reflecting the work that you have done. For example, if you feel that you have let go of a lot of issues and have sincerely moved beyond the need for their tough lessons, yet life is still repeating patterns and reflections of the old, or the new state of consciousness has not actualized, then there are still energies within the field that have not been cleared. The old energies that were supported by what you have let go of are still floating in the field. The Universe sees what is in your field and delivers accordingly. This clearing will sweep away the debris that you have released from the spiritual/psychological work already done, allowing you to gain the fruits of the work. The clearing is particularly effective for advanced and sincere spiritual seekers.
Once energetic distortion occurs within your field and the Universe responds to them with delivering negative recurring experiences it can be difficult to get out of them. If you cut or transmute the energy then the patterns will begin to dissipate until you suddenly realize that you have truly transcended them. The clearing & attunement transmutes the energies that keep you bound to repeating patterns.
Distortions and negative energy in the field attract negative thoughts from the Universal mind, which in turn builds deeper holes through recurrence which leads to beliefs such as “this is who I am” or “I am biologically bound to this way” etc. Such negative belief support an identity around these thoughts, which leads to actions that are against the values and ideals you have for yourself. Actions ingrain these beliefs even more. If you have done conscious work such as self-development then the root of attraction to these thoughts could be within your field. Clearing & attunement cuts away and heals the energy that causes attraction to negative thoughts. With a combination of personal desire and effort to stay vigilant and invite positive thoughts and emotions recurring negative thoughts will become a thing of the past.
When you become clear with yourself your relationships also become clear. As you become at peace with who you are, fully accepting of yourself, you are less inclined to live in denial or misunderstand the needs and emotions of others and yourself. Relationships often reflect the inner being and are an excellent way to take a look at where you are at. Sometimes a relationship can simply show you what you have already transcended. If you are attracting repetitive situations or dynamics or “types” then there is something going on within your field. When looking to improve relationships it is fundamental to incorporate clearing. Clearing & attunement helps you gain insight and clarity to see where you are at, what parts of yourself you may have ignored, abandoned or left for a later time. When you get these types of realizations you are ready to embrace them and move one. As the field is cleared, life reflects back the goodness you create instead of the negative in the field. As you do this, you are more likely to attract a partner that will reflect your clarity not someone that matches the distortion. The negative characters and experiences just won’t be that attracted to you anymore provided you don’t want them.
Moving into pain of the past takes Herculean effort and most of us just don’t want to go there. It’s either too painful emotionally, or we do not have the time to “take leave” from our lives to accommodate the explosion that may occur as a result. Digging into the past and “facing” trauma may not benefit everyone and in many cases it’s unnecessary, provided we have alternate tools. Energy clearing & attunement gives facilitates an organic process that clears the energetic distortions of the past. Most times there is no big inner confrontation. Sometimes, however, there is growth in the higher mind revealing that which you are ready to transcend. This work only reveals that which you are ready to. After most clearing sessions there is no need for mental comprehension and revisiting past issues. If something is revealed in the days after then one is to allow it to rise, embrace any part of self present and write to oneself from the higher mind inviting all parts as valid and welcome for reintegration.
Negative sexual experiences are some of the most painful and traumatic experiences one can have. They often take a lifetime of reconciliation and healing to be able to function properly. There are skilled therapists that can help reshape your understanding so you can incorporate it into your life as you move on. However, when one has a sexual experience with someone that is less than clear, and the perpetrator is performing the action through the unconscious mind, with guilt, shame, punishment, hatred, and ideas less than wholesome, sharing, giving, and not for the sake of mutual pleasure, then negative energy is exchanged—energy is taken on by the victim. Even if you manage to live with the experience, there are residing energies that more than likely persist. This work is extremely effective for those who have experienced a negative sexual experience. The clearings have the potential to remove the energy that keeps trauma in place.
Hopelessness breeds the inability to do something about it. Depression compounds energies are within the field and create deeper grooves within the mind. This work addresses the energies that support hopelessness and depression by clearing them from the field. As this happens new decisions can be made and hope can be revived as focused, repressed energies that support the feeling of hopelessness are cleared at an energetic level. This opens the way for healing at a conscious level. It’s not a magic pill, effort is needed to break the habitual ways of thinking but clearing gives one a giant boost and empowerment to win.
The most important thing is that you feel good about yourself. When you truly feel FULL self-acceptance you will radiate this and others will pick up on it. If they don’t then what they thing will not affect you anyway. If you are not within true authentic self-acceptance the question then becomes how do you make changes without validating the lack of worth. Too much focus on the “problem” may make it worse. If you want to make some conscious changes and change the way you look at things that’s okay, but this work is far more powerful than just “thinking” things through. This is where the rubber meets the road – actual work is done that will shorten the path to wholeness and healing. It offers the opportunity to begin manifesting the life you deserve. It is gentle, yet dynamic, and highly effective.
Should I do shadow work to clear myself?
I do not recommend seeking or dwelling on the unconscious. When one faces the Light, invokes, and lives it sincerely, that which is unconscious will surface in an organic, natural way. This is beneficial because it is happening within the intelligence of moving toward the Light and not into the unconscious. When emotions/feelings surface after a dream for example, ask within what it has to say, drop your expectation of what it should be and resist depending on learned understanding. Allow it to be organic and in the moment. Allow your inner guidance to surface. To do this you have to drop what you think is right or wrong. A good way to do this is to write to yourself. Open the writing with, “I unlock my feeling world within and watch if flow…” Then write a question (or simply purge), let go, and allow your writing to happen. If you know there is anger surfacing then write it out too. Don’t hold back; let it all go, no matter what it is. Many “spiritual” people don’t give their emotions the room they need because it’s not “spiritual” to get angry or to feel negative emotion. This is an obstacle to true growth. Write what you need to until you feel empty, completed, at least for this moment. It may come all at once or in waves. Have pen and paper ready throughout the day. Have no fear that you will be harmed by it, or that someone else will be harmed by it. Once this is completed listen to a guided meditation with positive words to draw your mind into the Light again.